Who am I becoming?
For readers questioning inherited beliefs, identity, fear, regret, responsibility or the life that no longer reflects who they are.
LAMBO PUBLISHING · APPLIED PHILOSOPHY · LORII MYERS
BECOMING,
BY CHOICE
The Truths That Shape Us
What if the life you are living still answers to truths you never consciously chose? This book helps readers recognize the beliefs, interpretations and repeated patterns shaping their lives—then decide what deserves continued authority.
- Form
- Applied philosophy
- Manuscript
- Approximately 69,000 words
- Structure
- 18 chapters · five parts
- Status
- Final commercial manuscript
THE CENTRAL PROMISE
See what shaped you.
Choose what continues.
We are influenced before we can consent to being influenced—by family, culture, love, fear, ambition, loss, power and circumstance. BECOMING, BY CHOICE does not ask readers to reject the past or invent a perfected self. It offers precise language for examining what has been inherited, what reality now reveals and how repeated choices give a philosophy its lived form.
FIND YOUR MIRROR
Begin with what is most alive.
The book opens with an issue-based guide that lets readers enter where life is asking the clearest question—not where a conventional sequence says they must begin.
What is true between us?
For readers examining attraction, trust, betrayal, relational fit, endings, repair or partnership without self-erasure.
What matters now?
For thresholds shaped by illness, loss, ageing, money, time, work, meaning, legacy or the decision to begin again.
WHAT SETS IT APART
Discernment—not instruction.
This is not formula-driven self-help. It is applied philosophy that respects the reader's authority, acknowledges real limits and makes experience more visible without deciding what another person must conclude.
01Recognizable human vignette02The accepted belief beneath it03A disruptive question04Competing ways to perceive it05The reader retains the choice
THE READING EXPERIENCE
One coherent philosophy.
Five movements through a life.
The Truths We Borrow
How beliefs gain authority before examination becomes possible.
The Person We Become
Identity, fear, change and the difference between performance and integration.
The Relationships That Shape Us
Trust, tenderness, truth, relational fit and partnership without disappearance.
A Life Worth Living
Money, beauty and the human consequences that continue through others.
Living Wisely
Time, wonder, meaning and conscious participation in ongoing becoming.
BUILT TO BE REVISITED
A book that can meet the reader more than once.
The Becoming Map
A reflective record of what currently holds authority, which questions have opened and what direction the reader is prepared to choose now.
Original language system
A dedicated glossary and a closing distillation of the book's central distinctions support rereading, discussion and companion-format potential.
PUBLISHING & RIGHTS
A mature philosophy title for readers whose old answers no longer fit.
With a distinctive method, immediate issue-based entry points and strong rereading value, BECOMING, BY CHOICE is positioned for trade publishing, discussion communities, courses and thoughtfully developed companion products.